Tweens - To Makeup or Not Makeup?

By: Catwalk Girls

Mom, can I wear makeup now? Your tween (8 to 12 year old) daughter finally popped the one question that is still ringing in your ears and keeping you up late at night. She’s not a grade-schooler and not a teen, so how do you respond? Here are some simple guidelines on managing this foray into adulthood.

The best way to answer this question is to find out what has sparked her interest in makeup. Does she want to imitate her friends? Is she hoping to look more grown up? Or is it just for fun? To get a better sense of where this newfound curiosity is coming from, spend time looking at fashion magazines together and discuss her likes and dislikes. Then experiment, pull out all your cosmetics and apply the products on each other. Always be sure to emphasize that makeup is all about enhancing features.

When & Where

As a mom, it is your role to set guidelines. Avoid "no makeup" ultimatums. This will surely result in makeup being worn behind your back in the most inappropriate places. Test the waters by allowing her to wear makeup for special occasions only, such as birthday parties, holidays and family get togethers. When you decide to allow her to wear it to school, ensure that her school's policy allows makeup to be worn. If she participates in dance recitals, gymnastics, cheerleading or skating competitions, follow the guidelines provided by the choreographer or coach. Halloween should be the one day where there are no rules and anything goes.

What to Wear

Makeup must be age appropriate, so play it safe with sheer lip gloss and pastel-coloured eye shadows. Tweens love pink, purple and blue hues and cosmetics that shimmer, sparkle or glitter. Girls this age are naturally blessed with rosy cheeks, so blush may not be necessary. Just remember that mascara and lipstick add several years to a face, so be cautious if you approve. It's best to avoid eyeliner as it is difficult to apply and creates a very theatrical look. Not ready to allow her to take the makeup plunge? Let her colour her finger and toe nails with polishes in soft tones.

Recommended Products

On the big shopping day, visit your local Claire's store and pick up the brands made specifically for young girls including Stuff by Hilary Duff, Raven, Claire's Cosmetics, as well as Mary-Kate and Ashley Olsen.

Article courtesy of Catwalk Girls. Catwalk Girls hosts in-home modelling and makeup parties for girls ages 8 and up.

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